A Wise Woman is Chaste and Respectful


I coach women on various homemaking skills through speaking engagements and social media

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4 Responses

  1. Sarah says:

    Hi Maggie,

    I know this an old post but I just happened to stumble upon your blog and I love it!

    I am just wondering something. Are you saying it’s wrong to wear lingerie for our husbands? Or are you just saying we should not wear immodest (outer) clothing?

    What if he is requesting us to buy and wear lingerie? Do we submit to that?

    Thank you!!

    • Linda says:

      I believe we should dress modestly. As far as lingerie, it’s a fine line. Being appealing to your husband in private is one thing. Feeding lust that may extend out to other women becomes a problem. Ask God to reveal to you where that line is and speak to your husband about the concerns. We want to help our husbands be mighty men of God, not slaves to sin.

  2. jennyk8338 says:

    Good morning…I was wondering if you could explain a little more in detail about what you meant by seduce your husband as a harlot would….I just want to make sure i’m not doing this so i’m wondering what all this means? I know in Songs of Solomon they talked sexual to each other? Is that wrong? Thank you and God bless.

    • Linda says:

      Thank you for wanting to do the right thing. I believe you can dress for your husband in a way that’s appealing without dressing to seduce. The problem with dressing to seduce is that men are excited by the visual. And when they rely on the visual, it stirs up lust within them. And when, for whatever reason – age, pregnancy, or physical changes – makes the wife unappealing, That lust takes over and looks for another. Scripture tells us that our beauty and appeal should come from within. And while there’s nothing wrong with being appealing physically to our husbands in private, we must balance it so that they don’t focus on how you look versus who you are. Does that make sense?

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